Best Sex Possible
Tinkering on the idea of writing a book about sex since after preaching it last February, people were asking for a biblical perspective on sex. Anyway if I am to write a book, this section would surely come up.
An average sex could last from 2 minutes to an hour. It is short but mind you its consequences could last a really long time.
When a married couple regularly have sex and have a healthy sex life – its consequence or result is a healthier marriage.
When single people commit pre-marital sex it has its consequences also. The imprinting thing that I blogged about a few days ago is a major consequence. So is unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, relationships cut short because the man got what he wants or he chickens out once when you told him you are pregnant.
God wants you to have a great sex life – but you have to do it his way. He created sex. He wants you to have some hot, amazing sex with your wife. When God creates something it is always good. The Bible is a great manual for sex. Let me share to you what the Bible says about sex.
1Th. 4:1-2 As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
Here lies the secret to the best sex ever. Paul writes to the church and says that we must live life in order to please God. Now how could this give you a great sex life.
If you live to please yourself = you become insensitive to others.It means you enter sex thinking about you and your needs.
If you live to please God then you become sensitive to your spouse and your girlfriend. For married men, it means I have sex with my wife not just to pleasure me but to pleasure her because I am not thinking about me. Imagine if all married couples have sex with that in mind. It would be the best sex possible.
Single men that means you don’t satisfy your sexual desire now by having sex with the opposite sex. You have to wait till you are man enough to marry the girl. Sex is a supernatural thing designed by God for men and women to enjoy and if we distort God’s plan on sex then we will see the result.
What are the results? Just look around you.
As Christians we do not live to please ourselves but God. We are not driven by the pleasures of our flesh but by the Spirit of God. Sex is not just a good idea it is a God idea. Praying that you have the best sex ever!!!