Fiancee’s sexual past makes me mad!!!!
Knowing that your fiancee had sexual relations with her ex-boyfriend, how can you fight erasing your thoughts about that especially when it crosses your mind from time to time and it makes you angry?
The only way to fight those thoughts is to surrender it to God. When you choose to love your fiancee and marry her, you also made a decision to unconditionally love her and forgive her of her past mistakes and sins.
You have to go back and see how God has forgiven you also. I think your fiancee needs your unconditional love and affirmation. You cannot undo the past, but you can do something about your future.
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