Is it ok for my spouse and I to “talk dirty” or sensually privately to each other as part of our foreplay? Are we sinning?
And let me answer this question with another question. WHY TALK DIRTY???
I think talking dirty and talking sensually are two different things. You can talk sensually without talking dirty. A lot of couples talk dirty because of what they have watched in certain movies. I don’t see the need for Christian couples to follow the ways of the world.
I’ve asked my wife, Thammie, about this and she would appreciate if I would just talk clean because she feels that talking dirty would also make her dirty and defrauded. I think she has a point.
Foreplay is more than just talking sensually. It is kissing your wife before you go to work. it is texting her that you remember her whole you were at work. It is serving her and pampering her at times when she feels really tired. It is doing some household chores with her.
29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
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