The One I like don’t notice me, the one I don’t like keeps on nagging me
What if you’re not attracted and you really can’t stand the guys who pursues you? You like someone else but he’s totally unaware. What do I do?
For your 1st question, you just have to tell him upfront that he has no fighting chance. I think a lot of men would appreciate if you don’t prolong the courtship if he really has no chance.
For your 2nd question, I still would encourage you to wait. Women are to be pursued and not to pursue the man. In the season of waiting it would be good for you to actively prepare yourself. How do we actively prepare?
Watch this to know how: