I really don’t know what to do.. there’s a girl whom I really like, we are in the same office but I’m shy to introduced myself to her , any ideas how I can overcome this katorpehan?
Torpe is the quality of being too shy to pursue romantic desires like courting a girl.
Torpe is not bad per se. I have seen some torpe guys get the girl. How?
It goes back to being authentic. Women love authenticity. Be who you are. Don’t project to be someone who you are not.
Here are some ways you can manage your katorpehan:
1. Most torpe could share their feelings through letters. Love letter is rare today thus increasing its value.
2. Have a genuine desire to know the girl you are pursuing. Most torpe people don’t know how to start a conversation but if you genuinely want to know the girl, you would have formulated questions on how to get to know her more.
3. Group dates. Group dates are fun. It gives you a chance to interact with other couples.
4. Read the book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carneige and “Be A People Person” by John Maxwell.
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