Producers not Consumers
Most men live their lives taking in. What can I get from the girl? What can I consume? We have passed the buck to be responsible to our wife, fiancee or girlfriend. A huge chunk of what we earn as men goes to toys or our hobby instead of our future. Nothing wrong with stuff and video games but to do things in excess and to prioritize that to our future then it is not wise.
Make it your goal this year to stop acting like a consumer but choose to produce.
Start a savings account, find a job that could afford you to feed your wife and kids, do some strategic planning over your life.