Men it is inevitable – you are going to have a fight/ disagreement/ debate with your spouse. Singles you are going to have disagreements with your girlfriend. The key is not to avoid fighting but to know how to fight clean.
I’ve always fight clean. Every time my wife throws a plate, I clean it up. ( Kidding aside) The way to fight clean is to understand that you are a team and not enemies. Your spouse wants a happy marriage. Nobody wants a miserable spouse. The reason there are tensions is because we all want to work on our marriage.
Fight for your marriage and not in your marriage.
The goal in every fight is not to defend your side. It is not who is right or wrong but HOW CAN I RESTORE THIS RELATIONSHIP?