How can we be lovers and not friends?
If you love someone how can you be contented to be friends with him/her if there is feelings involved? What I should do?
A great foundation of marriage is friendship.
If you are friends now and you are comfortable talking about your standing as friends, I think it is healthy to discuss it with openly and honestly. This would eliminate assumptions and expectations.
If after your talk you realized you are to take the relationship to the next level, good for both of you. If after your talk you realized you should not take it to the next level, then good for both of you also.
Either way, it is a win-win when we talk about things openly and honestly.
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