Red Flags before Unfaithfulness
Whether you are married, engaged to be married or in a relationship where you have made a commitment to be faithful, here are some warnings or red flags to look out for before unfaithfulness (adultery, two girlfriends at a time) happens:
2. Do I seek to meet with her away from the office in a more casual environment?
3. Do I prefer that my co-workers not know I’m meeting with her again?
So what do you do if you said yes to at least one of the questions above or worst you said yes to all three?
1 Corinthians 6:18 English Standard Version (ESV)
18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin[a] a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
The Bible says RUN!!!!! Emphasis on the RUN. But don’t just run anywhere because you might end up with another girl. Run to God. Run to your wife. Run to your family.
One more thing, once the red flags happen, we tend to rationalize the situation. You would hear yourself say, “It’s harmless, it’s just coffee”, or ” I can handle this one”.
Face the truth and run.