…. actually never happens in real life.
Sexual temptations don’t work that way. It is quite the opposite. Sexual sin happens through time. It starts off small but as it accumulates, you want something bigger. You are never contended with the small ones. You are not aroused by the normal sexual triggers – you are now looking for more.
It starts with a small magazine you bought in a bookstore or a youtube video or a sexy picture of a woman. After months of doing that you continually feed your lust drive. Later you want the real thing. Then you pay a prostitute for sex then have sex with your girlfriend.
Adultery happens with a small lunch outside work, sharing stories of frustrations and heartaches with the opposite sex, complaining about your wife. It moves to a dinner, then to sexual acts in bed.
Proverbs 7:21-23 New Living Translation (NLT)
21 So she seduced him with her pretty speech and enticed him with her flattery. 22 He followed her at once, like an ox going to the slaughter. He was like a stag caught in a trap, 23 awaiting the arrow that would pierce its heart. He was like a bird flying into a snare, little knowing it would cost him his life.