People who go the extra mile, gets the extra mile result. I think it is that simple. If you work harder, be greater than your opponent, offer something better and unique – people actually see it and reward you for it.
It works in almost everything. I work with a lot of single people. Most of them go through the same problem with their work, finances, career and leadership. But what makes the other achieve more? They want it more. They take time to hang out with successful people and ask questions. Instead of watching too much TV or play their computer games – they read books and improve on themselves. They live their life wanting to achieve something while others live the same way expecting a different result.
Do you really want it bad enough. Then it’s time to do something about it!