1. A colleague borrowed money from me years ago and said “nahihiya sya” when I last contacted him but he still hasn’t paid and no longer responds to my calls/messages and he either blockd me in fb or deleted his acct. I’ve tried not to be angry about it.
Nakikita mo pa ba siya kasi kung hindi na, na 1-2-3 ka na niya. Ibig sabihin wala na siyang balak magbayad sa iyo at malamang madami na rin siyang inutangan. Kung nakita mo siya, it would be good for you to confront him/her. I think it is good that you decide not to be angry about it but at the same time I hope you learn your lesson na huwag na mag pa utang pa ulit.
2. Is it ok to give gifts to a girl with the intention of pursuing her kahit po 1 or 2 months p lng po silang break ng bf nya…
Depende sa break up. Baka kasi masyado pang sariwa at maging rebound guy ka lang niya. Kung ako personally mag antay ka muna kung malalim ang break up niya, pero decision mo pa rin yan at ikaw lang ang makaka gauge kung pwede na ba o hindi. Gamitin din ang utak huwag lang ang puso.
3. is it okay to invite this girl to church. She kind of has feelings for me. I’m just beginning to see it, even though my friend and my sister have been telling me that. I’ve been trying to invite her since last sem. Should I just pray for her then?
Okay, una huwag kang assuming. Baka hanap lang niya sa iyo pera mo pero baka naman wala kang pera (joke lang) so huwag ka pa rin mag assume. If marrying age ka na at may trabaho ka na stable, go na ang pagligaw kung feeling mo may go signal na rin kay Lord. Pero maganda din yung option na mag pray ka muna. Pray for yourself – handa ka na ba sa long term commitment and marriage?