Category: Dating and Courtship

Taking Manhood Back

Ten Great Qualities to Consider Before Dating a Dude

To start on a high note, this one is about my personal, ten meaty unbreakable qualities of a husband quality guy. Yes naman, feel na feel ko at kaya naman  pala single pa ako, mwahahaha! Kidding aside, I also went through some  long and tough pruning process for me to realize my own worth and value.…
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The Reason Behind Breakups and Divorces

So many break-ups and divorces are happening today. Some years ago, people would be ashamed to admit a break-up, much more a divorce. However, nowadays there are people who, without a second thought, would tell you that they’ve had 3 divorces or 5 previous break-ups. The sad part about it is that it’s becoming the norm and…
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Spare an Hour, Change Your Love Life

Here is my talk on the problem why relationships get complicated. Spare an hour and change your love life!

4 Reasons Men Cheat and the Heart of Cheating

In a recent article by, they shared the 4 reasons men really cheat. They gave this 4 reasons and I somewhat disgaree with it and let me share why. 1. He doesn’t feel desired anymore This may sound odd, but guys need to feel sexy too. We need to know you want us, sexually.…
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Why Relationships Get Complicated

Have you ever wondered what made Facebook create a status called it’s complicated and surprisingly more and more people are defining their relationship as complicated. Is complicated the new norm? According to Tara Parker-Pope who wrote the New York TImes article “THE HAPPY MARRIAGE IS A ME MARRIAGE” The notion that the best marriages are those…
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Love is a Decision

Genesis 24 50 Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, “The thing has come from the Lord; we cannot speak to you bad or good. 51 Behold, Rebekah is before you; take her and go, and let her be the wife of your master’s son, as the Lord has spoken.” 57 They said, “Let us call the young woman and ask her.”58 And they called…
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Relationship Tip: Decide Before You Feel

It was the first time I heard someone said it and she was pertaining to me. Thammie told me when we got engaged that she never felt that loving feeling towards me that love songs would describe or movies would depict. I couldn’t believe my ears. I said that was impossible. With my gorgeous face…
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Para Sa Mga Nanligaw At Nasaktan

From Wikipedia: Courtship is the period in a couple’s relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage, or establishment of an agreed relationship of a more enduring kind. During courtship, a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement or other such agreement. Almost two years ago, I learned the art of playing my…
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To What Level are Parents to Get Involved in our Love Life?

This is a common question that I always get asked by singles and engaged couples. Most are feeling the stress of their parents trying to take control of their love lives but at the same time there is a desire for them to have their parent’s blessings in marriage. So where do we draw the…
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I’ve Found my Girl

February 5, 2005 I found my girl. It wasn’t love at first sight though I am madly deeply in love with my wife since 2004. It was a decision. When I decide to marry Thammie there were other implications such as: 1. I am not searching anymore. My eyes and my heart are reserved for…
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