Category: Relationships

Taking Manhood Back

Letter to a Frustrated Single Young Man

Dear Frustrated Single Young Man, Hi. Welcome to this particular webpage. I have some thoughts for you that I’m going to work out. I have seen your plight, and I want to be of help to you. I want to play the role of big brother to little brother in this little piece (or good…
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The Meaning of Masculinity

I read John Piper’s book “What’s the Difference” where he defined masculinity as: “AT THE HEART OF MATURE MASCULINITY IS A SENSE OF BENEVOLENT RESPONSIBILITY TO LEAD, PROVIDE FOR AND PROTECT WOMEN IN WAYS APPROPRIATE TO A MAN’S DIFFERING RELATIONSHIPS.” Reading this definItion brings a lot of clarity what masculinity really is as defined by…
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When Men Keeps Silent

Every man is wired to teach. Since the beginning of time, God intructs us men to teach and impart what God commands and requires. When God said do not eat of the fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, God instructed the man which means he expects man to inform the woman…
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Don’t bring Her to Your Mess

A guy approaches me and tells me he is ready to get married. He was to propose marriage to his girlfriend in a few weeks time. I ask him how he was in four areas: 1. Spiritually? 2. Financially? 3. Emotionally? 4. in Leadership? After those questions where his answers are almost NO – he…
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Why Men are Wild

It goes back to the creation. If you want to know the nature of a man, you look at where he came from. Here is how God created man: Gen. 2:5  Now no shrub had yet appeared on the earth and no plant had yet sprung up, for the LORD God had not sent rain…
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IGIRL APPS

When we stop living the adventure of manhood we tend to replace it with things. Given a choice between real live adventure and things – I’d choose the adventure BUT it seems like today’s men would rather choose the safe side and settle for things to fulfill their manhood. Let me give you an example…
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Expendables can help you

What do you get when you gather the more mature, the have been there done that action stars and make an action film – you get a top rating movie even if there is no compelling story in the story. The movie EXPENDABLES is not for women – it is for men. Watching it does…
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Undecisive

One of the things a MAN should work on is his decision making skills. Every man must learn how to decide even if it is tough. Yes – it is tough but somebody has to decide. Women instinctively waits for the men to decide but if your woman sees you are indecisive she takes the…
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The Male Chauvinist Baboy

It is hard to define a real man. Men who did not grow up with the proper understanding of biblical manhood or it was not ever modeled by the men around him usually ( and I say usually, not all the time) end up in either 2 categories: Coward and Chauvinist. I say usually because…
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Coward Men

It is hard to define a real man. Men who did not grow up with the proper understanding of biblical manhood or it was not ever modeled by the men around him usually ( and I say usually, not all the time) end up in either 2 categories: Coward and Chauvinist. I say usually because…
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