Category: Masturbation

Taking Manhood Back

Sex Talk @PUP San Juan

I was invited to be a speaker in PUP San Juan on the topic of Sex. I had a blast sharing my experiences on sex and how God designed sex to be. With the rampant sex culture – we need to go back to why God designed sex or else we misuse and abuse it.…
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The War On Purity: Take Your Side

I had a very fruitful discussion with my Victory Group today. We had our accountability time where we openly talked about our struggles as men. There is something very powerful when one man shares his struggles to other men, specially in the context of a discipleship group. Many of us began to realize that we…
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What To Do When You Fall…

No, not in love. This post is about when we fall for sin. I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago about a familiar feeling. What to do after falling into sin. Aren’t we all familiar with the feeling of falling into that same old sin and then all of a sudden we…
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Wet Dreams???

Wet dreams or what we call nocturnal emissions are fairly common in the lives of men. Even the Bible mentions “emissions” in a few places. Leviticus 15:16 16 “If a man has an emission of semen, he shall bathe his whole body in water and be unclean until the evening. Deuteronomy 23:10 10 “If any man…
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How did you know it was the right time for you and Thammie to get married? :)

For our formspring question of the day: How did you know it was the right time for you and Ms. Thammie to get married? 🙂 I think I will have to go back to a principle I have been teaching and blogging about. First, it was a decision on my part that I want to be…
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Don’t say your Porn isn’t hurting anyone

Jacob’s Story from Unearthed on Vimeo. Jacob’s Story is a mini-documentary about a man that once made his living by trafficking women & children for the purposes of commercial sex. Jacob worked as a trafficker for a crime syndicate in Johannesburg South Africa. We decided to release his story because of how raw it is.…
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How to Stop Dirty Thinking and Temptation

Answering two questions today: How do you stop yourself from thinking ‘dirty’ things? I mean, we can control ourselves from our actions but how about our minds? Pastor we are getting married soon and now we are tempted to lust.We love God so much but still we failed to resist the temptation to save sex…
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How God can Help you in your Battle against Lust

  Every time you remember that you are out in public, then you live an out-in-public life. “I AM WITH YOU” means you’re always out in public. In order to sin, you’ll have to drown out the voice of reality, put your fingers in your ears, and switch channels to the fantasy channel, the lie…
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Chained by Lust

How You Can Win over Impurity and Lust

“I’m Addicted to you Baby, You’re a Hard Habit to Breaaaak…” I’m sure you’re all familiar with this antiquely remembered song as Peter Cetera of Chicago describes how he feels about a certain special someone. Funny how his lyrics then are the perfect personification of impurity. Understanding impurity In this generation and age, pornography, sexual…
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I can’t trust myself

When it comes to moral and sexual purity – I can’t trust ME. No way am I trusting me. I have built boundaries to help me not fall and let me share some of them to you. 1. No driving in the car alone with a woman except my wife and family. 2. Not initiating…
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