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Taking Manhood Back

Love Advice from A Couple Married for 38 Years: How to Fight Right

Before Valentine’s we got to sit with Boni and Estela De Jesus and asked them some questions about marriage, money and couples fighitng. Enjoy the video!

For Marriage to Work its never 50-50

When I entered marriage, a lot of people advised us that for marriage to work, you’ve got to learn to sacrifice and work towards having a 50-50 relationship. It is give and take. They said Thammie and I need to mutually fulfil each other. It sounded like a great idea. We both need to fulfil…
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Dear Thammie

He who finds a wife, finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. – Proverbs 18:22 February 2005 – I received the biggest favor from the Lord. I married my wife Thammie. Well technically, God gave Thammie to me. I think my human powers would be impossible to make her like me, love…
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Thammie, thanks for Breastfeeding our Kids

This month is Breastfeeding Month. II thank God I married a breastfeeding mom. Breastfeeding has done a lot of wonders to our kids and our wallet as a family (hehe). My wife Thammie¬†breastfed all our kids and here are some benefits on top of mind; 1. Our kids have a higher immune system. One large…
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My Independence Day

June 12, 2004 was memorable for me. It was the day I propose marriage to Thammie. It was my independence day. While some think marriage locks you up forever because you stick to one woman, it freed me from focusing on loving one woman for the rest of my life. Thammie, loving you is liberating.…
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Overrated Love

One of the most powerful thing a couple would discover when it comes to marriage is that love is overrated. Love – how the world defines it. Being married for 9 years to a wonderful woman, I found myself thinking more about love. In our early years of marriage, I thought love was full of…
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I’ve Found my Girl

February 5, 2005 I found my girl. It wasn’t love at first sight though I am madly deeply in love with my wife since 2004. It was a decision. When I decide to marry Thammie there were other implications such as: 1. I am not searching anymore. My eyes and my heart are reserved for…
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Top 10 Things I love about Thammie (2013 Version)

Happy Birthday Thammie!!! I could list more than a hundred but for this blog sake let me share the top 10 ( not in particular order) 1. Her love for food. I thank God for giving me a wife who loves food. When I say love I am not exaggerating. Minsan ka lang makakita ng…
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Talk to Her

When our spouse/ fianc√©e/ girlfriend is stressed, she feels a need to talk about what is on her mind. She needs to rant, vent out her emotions and just talk about her feelings and all the other emotions and factors that might contribute to why she is feeling that way. As what I said in…
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