Category: Marriage

Taking Manhood Back

Love Advice from A Couple Married for 38 Years: How to Fight Right

Before Valentine’s we got to sit with Boni and Estela De Jesus and asked them some questions about marriage, money and couples fighitng. Enjoy the video!

Why Do Men Cheat?

Here is our 2nd episode in our Act Like a Man Youtube Channel. In this episode, relationship coach Jeff Eliscupidez sits down with me to discuss why men cheat?

What to Do with your Boyfriend Who Has No Plans of Marrying You Yet?

Our First Facebook Live with Thammie. It was such a fun impromptu experience. It was all unplanned but it was fun!

Sex Myth We Believe: You Can have Sex without Intimacy

Sex Myth #2: You can have sex without intimacy. Dr. Emma Kurtzman, Natalie Portman’s character in the movie No Strings Attached shouted in one of her scenes, “Why can’t we just have sex?!” Many people are asking the same thing: why can’t we have the pleasure of sex without the commitment? Why can’t we separate…
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Lessons Learned in 11 Years of Marriage

After being married for 11 years, here are 11 life-changing lessons I learned in marriage. Jesus must be center of marriage. When Thammie and I say Jesus is center of our marriage – it is not some bumper sticker or motto we have in our marriage – it is our lifeline. Through the past decade…
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Love those Insecurities Away

Song of Solomon 1:5-6 New Living Translation (NLT) 5 I am dark but beautiful, O women of Jerusalem— dark as the tents of Kedar, dark as the curtains of Solomon’s tents. 6 Don’t stare at me because I am dark— the sun has darkened my skin. My brothers were angry with me; they forced me…
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Before you say I Do

My 50 Shades Reflection

It is sad and painful to see people line up in movie theaters to watch the latest movie 50 Shades of Grey. With all the violence against women and the fight we are having with human sex trafficking in the Philippines – it seems like a lot of Filipinos still feed on the very thing that…
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Starting Our Year With Planning and Goal Setting

Last 2014 we decided to set aside some time out of town to just focus and write down things that we are believing God for. We went for a 2 hour road trip to a mountain resort and wrote it there. This year we did it again. We chose one of the nicest garden restaurants within…
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Dear Thammie

He who finds a wife, finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. – Proverbs 18:22 February 2005 – I received the biggest favor from the Lord. I married my wife Thammie. Well technically, God gave Thammie to me. I think my human powers would be impossible to make her like me, love…
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