Category: Masturbation

Taking Manhood Back

Healed from Sexual Molestation

It was a happy Saturday morning because my aunt told me that we were going to the mall, and that she wanted to buy a new polo for me. We went at around 1pm because I had to be at our Youth Prayer Meeting at 4pm. As a 13 year old, hip new clothes were…
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My 50 Shades Reflection

It is sad and painful to see people line up in movie theaters to watch the latest movie 50 Shades of Grey. With all the violence against women and the fight we are having with human sex trafficking in the Philippines – it seems like a lot of Filipinos still feed on the very thing that…
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Honoring God with our Bodies

Here is my preaching on what the Bible says about Honoring God with our bodies in the context of sex. Enjoy!  

When You are Tempted To Sexually Sin, Watch This

Powerful reminder of the power we need to say no to sexual sin, porn and masturbation: Watch out for the launch of my new book “Act Like a Man” this coming September at the Manila International Bookfair at SMX

How to Fight Lust and Sexual Sin

Ephesians 4:28 Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. Ephesians 5:3-4  But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. 4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude…
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How Porn Makes Men Barren

A man’s major struggle is pornography. Online porn today is one of the highest selling business in the world. Even with all the negative results of porn effects, men continue to get into it. One of the things that should be the most obvious to a man about the women involved in pornography is that…
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Give Me 6 Minutes to Show You Why We Have a Man Problem

This is a powerful talk. It takes 6 minutes of your time. Sit down and finish the talk and it will make sense. I have read the book The Demise of Guys: Why Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It and have strengthen my resolve to help spread the message of manhood to…
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The Battle is not in your sex drive

… the battle field is in our mind. All of us have our sex drive. Some are in hyper mode, some are in dormant mode but all of us in seasons of our life experience having an active sex drive. It is what we do with our sex drive that determines our actions. That is…
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Extreme Measures

There is too much unplanned pregnancies among singles because of pre-marital sex, stories of adultery left and right, movies and tv series that exposes us and our kids to the harsh realities of life and in a way numbs us to what is right. So what do we do? What I am about to suggest…
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Suddenly a Naked Woman stands in front of Me

…. actually never happens in real life. Sexual temptations don’t work that way. It is quite the opposite. Sexual sin happens through time. It starts off small but as it accumulates, you want something bigger. You are never contended with the small ones. You are not aroused by the normal sexual triggers – you are…
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